Sixth grade. I walked home from school and met two
kids I knew but did not hang out with. They were going to the lumber yard to climb
on the stacks of wood, and invited me. I should have been suspicious when we
crawled under the back fence. We climbed around until the two guys pulled out
cigarettes and lit up. I wasn’t interested in that, so I went to another stack
and kept climbing.
Of course, cigarettes in a dry lumber
yard are a bad idea, and they were caught. We were all taken to the manager’s
office and scolded. He asked our names. When I told him mine, he stopped.
"Are you Gary Gratton’s boy?" I said yes, and knew I was doomed. He
let the other guys go, then called my dad. "Gary, I just caught your boy
smoking in my lumber yard. I know you didn’t raise him that way." About
three seconds later, I heard tires squealing into the parking lot.
It was fairly easy to convince my dad
that I hadn’t been smoking, but I’ve never forgotten that my dad’s name was
known in our town, a thing of value. I decided I would never again do anything
to tarnish my father’s name. Nor mine.
Thanks, Dad.
Great picture. In my mind, they both still look like that. And I don't really look this much like my Mom.
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Yeah, I mostly think of them as that age, too. My mom was looking pretty old last time I saw her, although not as old as the 77 years she'll be here in a few days. How has this happened?
DeleteLoved this! It is a big deal isn't it, the worth of your family's name? John, I would love if you would link this up with me at Say It Saturday!
ReplyDeleteWell, Connie, it isn't really grandparenty, but you don't have to ask me twice.
DeleteThanks.
Thanks for linking. John, I have expanded my GSIS criteria. You simple need to be a grandparent who blogs, so you can link up every week :)
DeleteGreat story !! Now I have to go read that mother one that is showing under "you might also like" :)
ReplyDeleteHi Debra. Thanks for the kind word, and thanks for stopping by. Tonight is when I call my mother, one of the highlights of my week.
DeleteWhat a great story. I think it is great that the event inspired you to cherish your family name. I also think it was great that your Dad believed you! You must have had one of those Dad's that listen! My Dad was like that, too! We were 2 of the lucky ones.
ReplyDeleteHello again, Grandma Kc. Yes, if you had a dad like mine, you are lucky, indeed. He certainly wasn't perfect, but I always thought he was perfect for me.
DeleteThanks.